Monday, August 23, 2010

The Best Manformation for Woman

The Best Manformation for Woman

There are times when you want to share your feelings with your guy and he just won't share! You may want to talk about serious issues and other times you may just want to let off some steam. Whether it's at work, at home or at play, you work extremely hard to make sure everything goes right. When you finally get home after a two hour-long commute, you see your man and you decide to spill your guts to him about your long, hard day. Then what happens? He pats you on the back, and asks, "Where should we go for dinner tonight?" Exasperated, you ask yourself, "Why'd he say that of all things? Is that all he's got to say!?" While you know how to emote, guys are experts in the re-mote! You know how much you love your guy, but he might not know how to let you know the same. You might have a husband, you might have a boyfriend, or you might have brothers. It probably doesn't make one bit of difference. You tell yourself guys are all the same! You need to crack the guy code in order to decipher what they're saying, why they're saying it and what to do about it. What if you could crack this guy code yourself and understand why your man says what he says, and why he thinks the way he does? Well, you can if you step back and look at you and your man and your relationship from a clinical point of view. What's meant by this? Well, some of the best minds in the relationship field often advise for women to think like a man or at least see things from the guy's perspective. In sales training for large corporations, much same the same thing occurs. Sales trainers teach new sales people to think about what their clients want and not what the salesman wants. Those sales people that sell this way are often the most successful. In the same way, women that look at their man as he is and not how they'd like him to be are often the ones who have the best success with men. Some might say that insider information like this could easily be used to manipulate or con your guy into doing things he wouldn't normally do. I say hogwash to this. Think about it. You're looking at what your guy wants and then giving it to him. As long as both parties get what they want and it comes from a place of love, what's so bad?


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